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| Celebrate your success - Photo by Doug Mills @dougmillsnyt |
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| We don't want clones! |
Want to know what’s up with these two pictures? Read on… Sports
are competitive, but they are also meant to be fun. The beauty of team sports
is that everyone brings something different. This is essential for creating balance
in your system of play. On our team, we have lots of variety; ball winners,
two-touch passers, one-touch passers, play-makers, target players, and
dribblers.
One thing we really strive for in our style is to ensure we
are promoting an environment that allows for creativity. The women’s game is
starving for it. As a player, I have played for coaches that encouraged this
and for coaches who wanted us all to be the same. I can still hear it… “Two-touch, two-touch, two-touch….” and
the minute I went to take a third… “TOO MANY TOUCHES!”.
I’m not saying they are wrong, but I AM saying that
environment is boring. As a coach now, I absolutely see the need for this
simplistic mentality in certain areas of the field and in certain situations.
There is an obvious need to get results and get wins. But, for as far as soccer
has come on the women’s side, we are still “growing the game”, as we always
will be.
Part of growing the game is keeping the fun in it and
providing excitement and entertainment for our families, friends, and fans. You
only have one career, so why waste it being boring? We purposely recruit to
have balance on our team, because you can’t win with an entire team of
ball-winners and you can’t win with an entire team of 1v1 artists. In other words,
we don’t want a bunch of clones out there (see photo). In our program, the last
thing we want to do is hold back a personality player. Can they be frustrating
at times when they try to take that one extra touch and lose it, or beat two
players and get a little too greedy when they go for the third? Yes. Is it THAT
big of a deal that we need to take away what makes them special? No.
As a coach and as an educator, I see many more benefits to a
creative game than what meets the eye. It isn’t as simple as just dribbling by
someone, scooping someone, nutmegging someone, or celebrating. It promotes calculated risk-taking,
self-confidence, and support from teammates. Real-world application? I think
so. The icing on the cake is being able to celebrate these successes in a way
where the players aren’t looking over their shoulder to see whose feelings they
hurt. Pictured above, is one of our players – Junior Nicoleta Hardesty. She
nutmegged the (obviously upset) defender, and “chucked the deuces” as she ran
by. Some may call this unsportsmanlike, but I think it’s what is missing in the
women’s game. It’s OK to be good! And for those of you who feel sorry for the
defender, don’t worry, I am sure she gained just as much out of the experience
and will now be a better defender because of it. A total win-win.
Now go try something new!










